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Island Tunes & The Bridal Hulu
For your music, you may want to incorporate traditional Hawaiian songs, such as the well-known “Ke Kali Nei Au.” “Our music is very soothing and romantic, ” says Kahu. “You also can have vocalists share a duet called ‘Lei Aloha Lei Maremae, ’ or have a musician play the lack key, a traditional Hawaiian guitar instrument which sounds similar to a harp.”
For an authentic touch, a bride may choose to prepare and perform a special hula for the groom. “It’s a very poetic song that says her face glows like the moon. The hula was taught to us by the gods, and we consider it a magical dance, ” he says. “There is no more beautiful expression of our culture than the story-telling hands.”
For a Hawaiian atmosphere, consider tropical flowers like orchids, ferns, and ti leaves, as well as woven baskets and other décor made of coconut leaves. For favors, traditional Lauhala-woven boxes and containers work nicely with chocolate or nuts wrapped in bark cloth.
Though all these touches pay homage to the Hawaiian tradition in a special way, you may want to add what Kahu considers the most essential element of a Hawaiian wedding: speaking your words from the heart. “When a couple speaks from the heart, you can see and feel the love they have and feel blessed to be a part of that moment. When the families hear it, they can unite and be assured the couple is brought together by a divine source.”
The Traditional Luau
One of the best ways to bring traditions to any wedding is through cultural dishes. Chef Alan Wong, owner of award-winning restaurants in Hawaii and Tokyo, and holder of a Pacific Northwest title for the James Beard Award for Best Chef, tells us that a wedding traditionally calls for a luau, a large Hawaiian feast. “A pig is placed in a ground pit and is honored in a ceremony, then cooked, shredded, and served, ” he says.
“You’ll also find food like poi, a starch that comes from the taro root, as well as lomi lomi salmon, which was originally brought to the islands by the missionaries. There’s also a variety of raw foods like poke, marinated fish cubes with a simple mixture of Hawaiian salt, groundnuts, and seaweed.
“But that’s adventurous if you’ve never been to luau before, ” he adds. If you’re looking for something contemporary that represents the islands’ history, consider Chef Wong’s Hawaii Regional Cuisine, consisting of his unique and creative East-West menu.
Cross-Cultural Island Flavor
“Hawaii is the melting pot of the Pacific because people of many nationalities live here, ” he says. “The original Hawaiians came from Polynesia. Later the missionaries came from Europe. When sugar cane and pineapple were first grown, immigrants from Japan, China, Korea, and the Philippines came to work the fields. All these people brought their ingredients and cooking techniques with them.
“So our food is naturally East-West and my dishes reflect this, ” says Chef Wong who is of Chinese, Japanese, and Hawaiian descent. “I learned to cook from my Chinese grandfather and Japanese mother.”
His mixed cultural background combined with French training (New York City’s Lutece) has inspired his cross-cultural cooking style which allows him to have up to three or four ethnic influences on a single plate.
For your wedding, you might try a recipe from his cookbook, “The New Wave Luau.” For an innovative salad, he suggests a Caesar topped with traditional Kahlua pig. For a new spin on poke, he fries it in wonton strips until it scatters and flakes, and serves it with wasabi and avocado.
For a main dish, try ginger-crusted Hawaiian red snapper with an emulsified vinaigrette. “Vinaigrettes fit Hawaii perfectly, ” he says. “They’re lighter than cream and perfect for the warm weather climate.”
For a tropical wedding cake, Chef Wong suggests passion fruit, guava, or coconut filling with a simple vanilla or chocolate batter. Tropical flowers and foliage can also be used as cake decoration.
A Fashion Melting Pot
Hawaii’s multi-cultural history has also influenced a unique style of dress. For a historical and contemporary perspective, we caught up with fashion designer Jill Cullinan of Princess Kaiulani Fashions, a family-run business that’s been in operation for over 50 years.
“A lot of people think Hawaiian wear is a trendy Aloha shirt or a typical muumuu — a full-cut garment in a bright colored print, ” says Jill. “But Hawaii is a melting pot of fashion, combining Japanese, Filipino, Portuguese, Chinese, European, and American influences.”
According to Jill, “traditional Hawaiian, ” is really a matter of opinion. “In pre-missionary times, everyone wore very little clothing, and women were only clothed from the waist down. Later, in the 1850’s, the missionaries influenced the use of the full-cut muumuu, ” she says.
The Bridal Holoku
As island fashion began to mimic European styles in the early 1900’s, full-cut gowns became tapered and fitted, and thus evolved a new style called the “Holoku.”
The streamlined bridal Holoku typically has long sleeves, princess seams, and a high Victorian neck. “It’s a very pretty, feminine garment that’s extremely flattering to the figure, ” says Jill. “It’s very popular with brides who want to dance the hula at their wedding. For more contemporary brides, we offer off-the-shoulder necklines.
“What makes it different from other gowns is the traditional train, which was first popularized by Hawaiian entertainers during the tourist boom of the 1940’s, ” Jill says. “We use a small fish tail train, or a full gather train with a fan effect, both of which are very beautiful as the bride walks down the aisle.”
While white is the most popular color choice for brides, bridesmaids gowns are available in locally hand-screened fabrics with island floral prints, often tone-on-tone in shades of purple, pink, green, and teal.
For bridal accessories, turn to the beauty of nature. “Antheriums and orchids are nice in a tight bouquet or placed in the bride’s hair, ” says Jill. Brides can also wear a ‘Haku lei, ’ a wreath-like crown worn on the head, made of small flowers such as baby roses, orchids, or an island favorite, sweet-smelling pikake.
Jill also has found inspiration in royal Hawaiian gowns, which she’s researched in the archives of the renowned Bishop Museum in Honolulu. After measuring and sketching garments over 100-years old, she has created reproductions of gowns worn by some of Hawaii’s most prominent historical figures including Queen Liliuokalani, Queen Kapiolani, and Princess Kaiulani.
“In Hawaii, we have a unique cultural mix that dates back centuries, ” says Jill. “We roll many styles into one — and call it Hawaiian.”
Kahu Silva, Hawaii Cultural & Spiritual Services Center, www.hawaiialohaspirit.com